The First Month with a Rescued or Former Stray Cat: Building Trust
๐จ Check first
From the first day you bring home a rescued or former stray cat, avoid opening up the whole living room and fussing over them too much. Fear of the new environment can drive them to hide in gaps between furniture and go without food or water for several days.
๐ The answer in 3 seconds
- For a rescued cat coming from the outdoors or a previous home, the new house is not yet known to be safe. For the first 1โ2 weeks, limit their living space to a crate or one small room (a base camp).
- At first, avoid staring at them head-on, speak in a slow, calm voice when you take care of meals and the litter box, and wait for the cat to approach youโthis is the shortcut to building trust.
- When your eyes meet, returning a slow blink (a signal that you mean no harm) helps convey a sense of safety.
๐ Flowchart
- Step 1On the first day, place the cat in a crate (with a cloth over the top half) or a quiet room with a door that closes, set up a litter box, water, and a hiding spot, and watch quietly.
- Step 2At mealtimes, sit a little distance away and call their name softly, then gradually close the distance once they start eating calmly.
- Step 3After a few days to a few weeks, once they start rubbing against you on their own, gently offer the tip of your index finger at their nose to sniff, then softly stroke their cheeks and under the chin.
โญ Step-by-step fix
Step 1 ยท What you can do at home right now
On the first day, place the cat in a crate (with a cloth over the top half) or a quiet room with a door that closes, set up a litter box, water, and a hiding spot, and watch quietly.
Step 2
At mealtimes, sit a little distance away and call their name softly, then gradually close the distance once they start eating calmly.
Step 3
After a few days to a few weeks, once they start rubbing against you on their own, gently offer the tip of your index finger at their nose to sniff, then softly stroke their cheeks and under the chin.
โ Never do this
- Forcing a hiding cat out or picking them up and bringing your face too close (this deepens their wariness and makes them keep hiding).
- Making loud noises or inviting lots of visitors into the room right after bringing them home.
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